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They’re all around us… They are with us when we wake up… when we are at work or school. They are there when we are bowling on Friday nights and when we are eating out at our favorite restaurant (Joe’s Crab Shack… for those of you at home keeping score)…

 

What am I referring to? Opportunities. Opportunities to share Christ.  God puts them there… they are unmistakable when we are looking for them.  They jump out and smack us right in the face…when we’re looking… If we aren’t “looking”… they will pass us by unnoticed…

 

Let’s back up a little… Those of us who are Christians. When we give our lives to Christ, he changes us.  He installs a new set of wiring for our minds and hearts.  We are now hard-wired to love others. That’s not to say we don’t “short-out” every once in a while… (Guilty…sorry drive-thru lady) but in general, we have a love for the people around us. 

 

Question: Why do we love others now that we are Christians?  Why?  Because Christ loved us… He loved us so much that he died for us! Ok… now that we have established that, we can move on.

 

Several weeks ago I was downtown and I was working.  I was setting up a booth in preparation for a convention that was going to take place.  As I was setting up I had to enter and exit the convention center several times in order to bring in all the supplies that I needed for the booth. I was anxious to get everything completed so I could get home at a decent hour. 

 

I walked out of the doors onto the street when a man approached me.  He had “BAD DAY” written all over his face.  He was sweating, and he looked exhausted.  He said, “Sir, do you have $8 that I could have to buy some fix-a-flat, my family’s car has a flat tire about a mile away.” I had no reason not to believe him, although generally I am a skeptic about those types of things… However, you can look in a person’s eyes and see when someone is in need… The only problem was… I didn’t have any cash… So we spoke for a while, and even considered dropping him off at the auto-parts store. Then I had the idea to find an ATM and get the cash that way.  That’s what I did.  I went to the ATM and as I was typing in my numbers, I felt compassion for the man and withdrew $40. I folded the money up so he wouldn’t notice that I had given him more and handed him the money. 

 

The man’s face lit up and he had a real expression of relief and thankfulness.  He shook my hand and went off to the auto-parts store.  I turned around feeling preeetttyy good about myself.  I couldn’t get over how generous I was.  I stepped back inside and began working on my booth and IT HIT ME… I HAD COMPLETELY FAILED!!! I had missed the opportunity to share Christ. I was so caught up in how generous I was being that I neglected to share with him, the only thing I possessed that was of real value.

 

I am immediately reminded of the Samaritan woman at the well in the book of John.  The Samaritan woman showed up in Jesus’ life one day.  I bet she looked exhausted, I bet she was sweating from the middle-eastern heat… because you see; she didn’t get her water in the morning like the other women. She was pulling her water in the middle of the day.  Just like the man that entered my life several weeks back, this woman entered Jesus’ life thirsty and in need.

 

The man entered my life and he was thirsty…He was thirsty to get back on the road, and thirsty to escape his circumstances… thirsty to find relief in his life.  There I was… I gave him water… I helped his circumstance… but the problem is… circumstances never go away… we can never escape them in this life…  I didn’t do what Jesus would have done… I didn’t give the man what Jesus’ gave at the well… THIS MAN WAS THIRSTY… and there I was… with a jug full of LIVING WATER… and I kept it to myself… a missed opportunity…

 

“…I tell you, open your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for harvest.” (John 4:35)

 

Opportunities surround us…

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Don't You Smile at me you crook...

Don't You Smile at me you crook...

Mankind has managed to accomplish numerous outstanding achievements. We put a man on the moon, discovered cures for horrible diseases, and built skyscrapers that reach into the clouds… However, despite all of our accomplishments we still have at least one major frontier to traverse… Putting the “Large Water” on our nation’s fast food menu…

I  challenge you… go ahead… try and order a “large water” at the drive thru… see what they give you. They will give you a small, or they will give you a medium, they will give you anything but a large. WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? Is it the cup?…the ice? I will pay for the stupid cup… I have attempted to do so many times with little success. I will normally STILL get a medium water when I get to the window, or I will get, “I’m sorry sir, we don’t have a button for that.” Well… you don’t have a button for stupid, but you seem to be pulling that off ok…

Readers, I digress… Let’s walk through some facts together… Am I wrong to say that water is most abundant natural resource on PLANET EARTH?  If my high school biology class taught me correctly, our bodies are made up of… you guessed it… 75% WATER.  If this is the case then why can’t we fill a 32oz cup with water…Honestly? Why is there such blatant beverage discrimination taking place? Why are we denied the original “Real Thing,” and we are not permitted to “Obey our thirst” in the most natural of ways?

I am not a conspiracy theorist; I don’t think there is some committee sitting behind a green curtain plotting to deny us 32oz quantities of water to keep us fat and thirsty. I think the problem is just a lack of knowledge and lack of courage. Friends I say STAND UP… I SAY NO. Do not settle for these 20 oz imitation larges… This is AMERICA… isn’t it?  We drove out the Brits, defeated the NAZIS, tore down the Berlin wall, and invented the freaking SUV… We will not accept anything less…  The next time you visit your local drive thru just say NO, say it with me … “ NO! I would like a LARGE water please… “

“Oh, and can I get fries with that…thanks”

 

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Debt Is The Enemy

“Sign Up NOW, No Payments for ONE YEAR!” …”It’s a great time to buy right now”… “I just use my card to get the Disney Reward Points.” ” I want to know my spouse is in a reliable vehicle…”

There is one thing that almost always follows these statements…  DEBT.   Attention Debtors, you are being enslaved. Turn away before its too late.

**Allow me to preface my remarks with this fact.  My wife and I have been living 100% Debt Free for about 4 years now by CHOICE, and the GRACE of GOD. The only reason I mention it is to inject some credibility into my comments to follow, and to show that it can be done.

The borrower is slave to the lender.  None of the quotations above are bad in and of themselves.  If they are considered in a vacuum, they can be completely inocent.  The problem is that we use these statements  to justify falling deeper and deeper in debt.

If we don’t have the cash to purchase the products, why do we justify it?   Why do we allow our representatives in congress do the SAME thing? NOTE :to you financial types… debt is not a tool for wealth. It’s a tool for enslavement, be careful thinking you can outsmart it.

“No payments for ONE YEAR.” I can afford a 60″ flat screen, I don’t have to pay anything for a year! INSTANT GRATIFICATION.  What’s not in the bold print is the fact that if the complete balance isn’t paid off before the promotional period, you normally have to pay ALL the interest at an outrageous rate.

 “It’s a great time to buy right now…”  This statement should read, ” It’s a great time to buy right now, if you have the CASH to buy right now.” It has now become painfully clear to many families that there are consequences for over-extention.  2 and 3 years ago, the experts were saying “It’s a great time to buy… we were all watching, “Flip that House,” on TV. The one thing that most tend to ignore is a word called… “Risk”  A home is an investment, all investments come with risk.   Now many families are feeling the pain of foreclosure. Dave Ramsey, author of Total Money Makeover, and host of, “The Dave Ramsey Show,” suggests that a family’s mortgage should be no more that 1/4 of their take-home pay.  This allows for the possibility to circumvent bad circumstances should they creep up on us. In other words, it leaves some “fluff” room WHEN bad times come…

“I  just use my card  to get the Disney Reward Points.” (GUILTY…) This excuse is the one I always use.  There is something about that mouse….  What I almost always conclude is that I spend a LOT more money putting it on my Disney card than I would have, if I would have paid cash.  All in the name of a mouse.  Sounds silly, but be careful with this one, it seems innocent, but if you think about it… Would the credit card company offer these “Rewards” if THEY did not benefit from them in some way? Attention:this is not a symbiotic relationship…  You are the host, and they are sucking the life out of you… rarely do you benefit from these “rewards.” Just another way to slowly draw you deeper and deeper into debt…

” I want to know my spouse is in a reliable vehicle…”  I am going to make some people mad with this one…  Ready…. We don’t NEED $20,000 vehicles, unless we have $20,000 in cash to buy one. Any readers left? Those of you who are still here, Vehicles are expensive without having to pay them off with a loan.  Obviously, there is gas, insurance, maintenance, and repairs.  Adding, a large car payment to this equation is ASKING FOR TROUBLE.  We have a short memory… several months ago we were shocked when gas reached over $4.00 a gallon… Gas at that rate cripled most peoples budget.  The truth is, we could have delt with these kind of unexpected changes better, if we had more “fluff” room in our budget, by minimizing the things we CAN control.  Let’s save our money, and pay cash for a vehicle, there are many reliable vehicles that don’t cost $20,000. 

The point of my post wasn’t really to zero in on particular debt practices, I just wanted to use them to paint a picture.  The point is to emphasize that staying out of debt allows for the MAXIMUM personal freedom to take place.  Being in debt, puts you under the control of whomever owns the debt… and by the way the federal government will most likelly own your debt soon… if they don’t already…

For those of us who are Christians… We cannot do our job as believers as effectivly when we are tied down by debt…  We become more charitable when we don’t  have the stresses of debt.  Tithing should be a PRIORITY.  Whether we are in debt or not we should rely on God to take care of us. One of the first steps of this practice is to tithe faithfully. It is a testimony of our faith! … 

We won’t need the federal government to take care of the poor, through wellfare, and other social programs with intrusive taxation if we, “THE CHURCH” are doing our jobs and providing for the least fortunate. This is an impossible feat while we are being controlled by debt… and all we have to do is look around us if we want the proof.

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Thank God for Failure

In my short time as an adult I have gained a lot of the knowledge that I have, because of my own personal failure.   I messed up so I tried to do it differently the next time around. Seems like common sense… right? God gives us free-will to make our own decisions. God does not FORCE people to follow him or even to believe.  God gives us the opportunity to reject him…God gives us the opportunity to fail…

This seems to be a hot topic, considering the recent events with AIG, and other financial institutions that are being “Bailed Out” by the United States Government.  Free-Market Capitalism is based on this “common sense” concept of failure.  A person has an opportunity to take risk, to start a business, to invest in education,… this risk can result in success or failure. This is the beauty of the free-market. In its proper form it knows no race, nationality, gender, or sexual orientation. No system is perfect, however, it provides equal OPPORTUNITY to succeed or fail for everyone. NOT EQUAL RESULTS

 I don’t like the idea of the Federal Government “Saving” companies that would otherwise go out of business. The politicians will tell us, if we don’t save these companies the world will come to an end, or you will lose your job, or any other HORRIBLE thing will happen to us if they don’t take control, and take control RIGHT AWAY!  I think we should always be suspicious of these “Actions” that MUST take place RIGHT AWAY to avoid catastrophe. This allows bad decisions to take place and we give up a little freedom in order to maintain comfort. Failure is not comfortable! If it was, nothing would be learned.  (This applies to Republicans and Democrats, by the way!) Abuses of power have nothing to do with political party. Both are guilty of it.

Let’s not deprive ourselves of failure as individuals, or corporately as a Nation. Let’s take responsibility for our failures and the consequences will be our motivation to SUCCEED the next time.

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HELLO BLOG!

I have fallen prey to the Internet phenomenon that is : BLOGGING

Welcome, to all that visit and hope you don’t mind me going on, and on about what I think about things… that’s what your supposed to do on blogs, right? 

Hopefully, those of you who are friends and family can use this to keep in touch and know what is new with me!  If you can’t reach me by facebook, twitter, email, text, cell, or carrier pigeon you are in luck! This blog is for you… 

On a serious note, I am blessed.  I have a beautiful wife who loves God, a job, a great church family, and the privilege of attending college.  I am blessed to be an American, I try not to take that for granted, however, having been in this country my whole life, that can be a difficult task.  I feel blessed because God has never ceased to take care of my needs, and has provided many of my WANTS, by the way… 

Several months ago my wife and I began to volunteer to be small group leaders, and recreation leaders for the church youth group, we decided to eat healthy and not put trash into our bodies, we decided to be consistently in the word, we decided to try and break FREE of as many worldly things as we could. We are in the process of cutting down the time we stare at the TV (as soon as American Idol is over of course ;) love you babe)…

I say all of this, to say… I haven’t felt joy like I have felt it over the last several months, in years.  I went from a someone who was constantly stressed, and anxious, about my career, and money, my weight,  and the future , and all the things young people feel with a new family… To someone who is joyful… Praise God… Laughter fills our house, we literally laugh out loud constantly because we think WE are hilarious… I feel like things have improved because we have relaxed our iron grip on our lives and let God do what he does…

I have as many bad days as anyone else, but I have joy… I am blessed…I hope this testamony is an encouragement to my imediate family and my family in Christ…

 9 I am the door. If anyone enters by me, he will be saved and will go in and out and find pasture. 10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.  –John 10:9-10

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